Signs Your Girlfriend is Toxic |
Posted: February 27, 2019 |
Feminist girls like to talk about toxic masculinity as if men treat them as tools and just disrespect their privacy. But in fact, when it comes to dating, women are no better than men. They also do mistakes; they are all so manipulative and run at many times. But often, your girl will reject her toxicity; that is why you should carefully check this list and decide for yourself whether your relationships have gotten junk. You have a different schedule Do you remember your morning starting differently? You could lay in bed as long as you want, scratching your balls, going through the news feed, planning your day and then taking off to a university of work. Now, you have to wait for your significant other like a doggy outside her house to give her a ride anywhere. And your day is planned differently: not the way you want but the way she wants. You're ready to fetch her everything with no regard of where you need to go or what you need to do. Sure, you'll have to find some compromise but not till you have to die over her whims. Remember, everything has a golden middle. You keep a distance from your friends Sure, when you and your friends have your personal life thriving, you will eventually have no time for partying and going together over a beer, and your sudden trips became not so sudden. And no one wants anything; everyone has their own stuff to do. But you noticed that you have no time even for very rare occasions, not because you have a stressful job but because you have to stay with your significant other all the time. And she also has excuses not to let you go. One of the main toxicity signs is isolation from your friends and relatives. You've given up some of your hobbies You used to play football after work, read comic books, or do puzzles, and it doesn't even matter how cringy or cheesy it was. The only thing that matters is that you liked it. And now, you go to the gym, yoga classes, and personality growth coach. Well, it's not too bad. But do you really like it? Or do you want to do something different? Then she came, with exclamations that all of your previous hobbies were just meddling. Maybe they were. But again, at least you liked them! Where did she control you to the point you stopped getting pleasure from your own hobbies? It's a bad sign! It's a sign you're being controlled. You stopped eating your favorite food Before you were dating, you liked munching on Doritos and eating junk food. And now, you're on a diet, and if you try to crawl into the kitchen at night, you will be prosecuted at once. What does it mean? It means that from now on, she controls your primarily physical needs, which is also a bad sign. But if she restricts you in food choices, you should think over. Her control is now uncontrollable (a Russian wife would never let you starve). You keep apologizing even if you're not guilty Relationships are nothing without fights. Sometimes you have to deal with scandals. But even there your significant other can control you. You know her whims, and you know that your girlfriend can become mad out of nowhere. And, as a gentleman, you're used to compromising. And this is becoming a norm, and you become the main villain. It's absurd to apologize for something you didn't do. It stinks of toxicity. From now on, you have to do something with it or just avoid fight starters. You make everything for her not to leave you It's the main sign of being controlled by your girlfriend. Your main fear is being dumped. That's why the only way to avoid it is to satisfy all her needs. Even those you're not interested in. Even if you don't want to do this. You deprive yourself of your principles. But only for a good cause. But in fact, all it does is lowers your self-esteem. And it's not the best thing for you. That's why if you detect at least one of these signs, you'll have to take the situation in your hands.
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